Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Acute
I'm not ready.
Sunday, January 16, 2011
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Purple-eyed Monster?
So why purple pens? Well, in medical school with all the long hours spent in front of a computer or in a lecture hall you learn to appreciate the SMALL things. Whether it's a friend bringing you a cup of coffee you weren't expecting, a ten minute study break to play pool or ping pong, or the color of pen you use to take notes during said monotonous hours of note taking. My preference, especially when i'm feeling sorry for myself or really hate the topic is purple. Last year at some point toward the end of the year I was having a marathon study session in our living room the night before an exam when my dear husband came into the room to check on me as he oft did. I was siting on the couch, pouting and shaking my purple pen. I allowed as how it was a bad omen that the night before my exam my purple pen would run out. Kevin asked me if i could use anything from the store to complete my marathon and disappeared into the night to journey the two blocks to our local Walgreens. When he returned he came bearing gifts of study food which i had expected and (very unexpectedly) a CASE of 20 purple pens!!! Imagine my delight as I sat on my couch eating crappy food shoveling knowledge into my brain while writing with a purple pen. This has always stood out to me as one of the most amazingly romantic things my husband did for me in our short 18 month marriage. It's funny what sticks out when you're looking through the bifocals of hindsight.
So, yes, walgreen's employee, I am blubbering in Walgreens because not only is your musak playing "I'm yours" by Jason Mraz but i just saw a purple pen on the rack at your store. I'm sorry if I'm making you uncomfortable but until you lose your purple weapon wielding prince...you'll never understand.
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
New Beginnings
Goodnight, sweet prince. I will always love you. I’ll meet you in my dreams.
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Who Rescues the Rescuers?
This is an article I wrote for my medical school publication after a particularly difficult call that K went on. It took us a couple of weeks to fully recover from the damage it caused to his psyche.
What is your job as a doctor? Is it to know anatomy, biochemistry, pathology and pharmacology? Sure. However, it is more than just that, we share a very unique burden with law enforcement and other emergency personnel. Except for a small number of specialties, you will often be treating patients when they are very ill. It is our job to treat a whole person; part of that burden is treating their emotions. Unfortunately, when you are dealing with the most painful aspects of the human condition it is hard not to let it affect you personally.
Medical school attracts highly motivated, type A personalities who are used to being a person who is depended upon. Medical training also seems to impress upon students a somewhat casual approach to death and pain, beginning with cadaver dissection and moving on through clinical rotations. During the clinical years a student or resident can feel like showing any perceived weakness might hurt their grade or change how they are viewed by their mentors. Much of this problem comes from pride; the culture of physicians includes the ability to be a casual observer of these most difficult parts of life.
Home life may not be much improvement, especially if one does not have a good support system or someone else who can empathize at home. Often times it is even suggested to emergency responders not to “bring work home” with them. So imagine this scenario: you have just worked a twelve hour shift of dealing with other people’s pain, you know you have no one you can talk to about it and you know that when you leave work you have people who are depending on you to complete your responsibilities at home; it is easy to see why there is such a high prevalence of drug and alcohol abuse amongst physicians and other emergency personnel.
It is incredibly important, in my opinion, to learn early in a career how to debrief effectively. It is inevitable that at some point you will see a patient that will trouble you. They will remind you of your mother, your children, a painful situation in your past, or you may have a patient die and feel like it was your fault; something will get into your head. It is our job to be able to compartmentalize our emotions to effectively take care of our job and treat the patient at that moment. However, leaving your emotions compartmentalized will effect all of your personal relationships and in the long run is detrimental to your entire life and leads to burnout.
So who rescues the rescuers? We all do, it is our responsibility as a community to be able to recognize the signs of someone having a difficult time and to be available for them. It is our job to support the members of our teams and realize that everyone will eventually have a problem like this. It is also our job to be open enough to recognize these feelings in ourselves and seek out help instead of letting them fester because we are no use to anyone if we are broken.
“Physician, help yourself: thus you help your patient too” – Nietzsche